DISCLAIMER
I, the performer, understand that I am an independent contractor rather than an employee of Ruby Entertainments, yet will be engaged as required and utilized as such during this period.
This is not a contract, but a guide in how to conduct oneself.
Because you are an independent contractor, Ruby is not liable. So for example, if you were to injure yourself while performing, you are not protected under Workmen’s Comp. etc.
It is your responsibility to claim your income on your taxes, and, should you choose not to, please be aware that Ruby claims all her income and pays taxes and will need to be honest with the Canada Revenue Agency, should they come asking questions regarding any of the performers.
Please agree to all terms, conditions, rights and responsibilities laid out in the below “code of conduct”, by replying to rubyentertainments@gmail.com with your full name and birth date, an emergency contact and their relationship to you, and completing the “review questions” on the final page of this document.
Your confirmation is your promise to abide by these terms, and acknowledge that you are bound to them for the duration of this professional relationship. You understand that inability to comply with any portion of this code at any time may be grounds for nullifying our agreement and/or your removal from Ruby Entertainments’ productions and involvement.
ASSUMPTION OF RISK AGREEMENT
Performances and participation require dance and acrobatics or movement that involves stretching, jumping, lifting etc. You should be aware that any of these activities could result in injuries, including but not limited to, sprains, broken bones, paralysis or even death. Your confirmation acknowledges that you have been notified of the risks involved in your participation. Be aware of accidents and know your surroundings to avoid such injuries.
It is possible you could hurt yourself in strange venues; we have been known to perform anywhere from a boat, to a bouncy castle, to a tractor. And I should practice what I preach after attempting to impress a stag party and slide down a fancy banister in stripper heels which ended up seriously injuring my knees! Another example is a dancer who hurt her neck doing a headstand on a moving charter boat) I offer these as examples to the various ways we can injure ourselves. We should ALWAYS BE THINKING OF SAFETY FIRST!
CODE OF CONDUCT FOR CONTRACTORS
This document contains an outline of the standards of conduct for performers and contractors with Ruby Entertainments (“Ruby”). All independent contractors should read this document and seek clarification in order to avoid conflict with the standards. This is an internal document, and confidential information that will not be shared with anyone outside of Ruby.
VISION AND MISSION STATEMENTS: A noble calling
We envision a world where we:
--->Encourage and inspire each other with open minds and hearts
--->Cooperate and lift each other up with assertive sexual boundaries and self respect
--->We are fearlessly creating a new stag/ette culture that combines sex positivity with consent through a playful platform of dance, connection, and touch.
Our mission is to:
--->Build referrals and customer loyalty through epic entertainment experiences.
--->Provide the highest quality service and memories to those celebrating the biggest night of their lives.
--->And to be genuinely warm and fabulously glamorous, with polished looks and playful personalities, leading the way in our own luxury niche.
PRINCIPLES
Ruby believes that the highest standards of conduct for performers are essential to maintain and enhance our audiences’ confidence in us and ensure our efficient and effective operations. Negative actions impact how we function, how the public perceives Ruby, and how performances are conducted. Negative attitudes also create a hostile environment within our community. The integrity and smooth operations of our conduct should promote ethical and positive behaviour at all times. We are leading by example, we are the fun, the joy, and the sparkle. If you don’t feel this statement resonates, speak to Ruby or Luna.
MANDATORY REQUIREMENTS
General
The requirement to comply with this code of conduct is a condition of participation with Ruby Entertainments.
Behaviour: Team Players, no Princesses
The conduct and language of all performers must contribute to a positive environment. A performer must not compromise the integrity of Ruby Entertainments and our good name, that is one of joy, authenticity, and respect. Performers must promote honourable behaviour and treat each other and clients, with respect and dignity.
You are expected to bring a positive and encouraging attitude while working for the effectiveness of the whole team.
Divisive, deceitful, or disloyal behaviour will not be tolerated. This includes spreading malicious gossip and rumours of others, speaking ill of a performer, Ruby, or a performance in public. The foremost priority is honourable behaviour that is kind, considerate and fair towards others.
Health and Safety
All performers and participants have the right to expect, and the responsibility to create, an environment where our performers are safe. Violence and other forms of harassment including sexual-harassment, bullying, and any attempt of physical force so as to cause injury or harm, or the expression of threat of violence or harassment, will not be tolerated. We are cultivating a culture.
Ideally touching will always be consented to and this includes touch between performers.
Be mindful of where each other‘s boundaries are and how biting, slapping, or spanking must also be consented to between performers. Watch eachothers’ backs! Be aware of beverage spills or other accidents that make it dangerous when dancing or performing in heels.
For those driving there is zero tolerance for intoxication while behind the wheel.
Because shows are “sexy” in nature, be mindful and truthful about STIs with those we are intimate with in the Ruby setting (duo shows, for example.)
Safety Tips for Ruby Girls
Always assess your surroundings for safety. Ruby girls are smart with common sense and instincts in how to effectively deal with men (and sometimes women!)
We act as a team always.
Let the party know you’re always in control and worthy of respect at all times by your behaviour and the way you hold yourself. Body language is bubbly and assertive, yet finding the balance between polite and firm.
Concerning consent around any “light petting” we collectively understand that our boundaries evolve with experiences, and we each take responsibility for asserting those boundaries for ourselves. Having said that we do our best to be sure the party knows our policies around touch both before the party and on the night of.
Our policy is no XXXtras but be prepared with a reply when you are approached about such services. You can refer them to one of the local escort agencies such as Island’s Finest, Sweet VIPs, or Seduction Unlimited.
“Hand jobs, blowjobs, those aren’t our jobs but we respect those who do them!”
Even though some Ruby performers partake in escorting, we do not want the two worlds to overlap. If you are an escort and either offer extras or suggest that customers see you later in that regard, we consider this a conflict of safety and interest. For example, we have performers who only do burlesque and serving and if one person offers XXXtras, a customer may use that at a later date, “so-and-so did it and so should you."
We also do not want our good name put in any risk; future wives want to trust us with their future hubby’s stag party.
Problem Parties
Collectively we have had only a small handful of problem parties. Problem parties/people are those who don’t treat us as equals or respect boundaries. They’re often cheap, pushy, and consistently ask for XXXtras. In such cases the Stag Contact is your ally: use him and delegate to him. For example if you have someone overly touchy or drunk, ask the Contact to handle it.
When someone crosses your boundary use “three strikes” and be polite but firm. For the first strike use your nice voice (almost patronizing, like when you speak to a child), with the second strike, “I said NO”. The third strike means we leave the party so be sure the Stag Contact knows another party goer is putting the whole evening at risk with his poor behaviour.
You can also enlist other well-behaved guys to keep a handle on those misbehaving. Sometimes you can use the misbehaviour as an opportunity to set an example for the rest of the party in a fun lighthearted way. “Don’t be that guy everyone! Theres always ONE!" (in a joking manner.)
ALCOHOL AND ILLEGAL SUBSTANCES
There is zero tolerance for drinking when someone is responsible for driving other performers. There will be no intoxication when behind the wheel. Ruby reserves the right to ban an intoxicated or otherwise impaired performer. This does not mean that alcohol can’t be consumed, but that while in public and representing Ruby you must be aware of your state of intoxication and moderate your intake accordingly. Fulfilling the requirements of the job is the utmost priority.
Be careful when consuming other substances as well, and Ruby discourages using substances that impair your ability to have safe and healthy boundaries such as GHB, MDMA, and Ketamine.
Please be sure to have a naloxone kit on hand in case one of the party guests overdoses. If you need instructions on how to administer it we can walk you through it, but a good short-hand is have someone call 911 then break the medical vial on the dotted line away from you to avoid any glass shards. Next slowly draw the naloxone into the syringe cartridge, tap out any air bubbles, and inject into a large muscle such as bicep or thigh. If the person isn’t breathing, administer CPR, or even chest compressions only, to the beat of “Staying Alive”. Continue this until the paramedics arrive.
CONFIDENTIALITY
Confidential information performers receive through their participation will not be divulged with anyone other than those who are authorized to receive the information. Caution and discretion when handling confidential information includes disclosures made inside and outside of the involvement with Ruby Entertainments, and continues to apply after the relationships ceases. Information received from your participation must not be used for the purpose of running any private interest, or as a means of making personal gains. See the conflicts of interest section of this document for more details.
Most important: some people don’t want anyone to know what their involvement with Ruby is. Please be aware not to use real names while at a party and use discretion when in public with other performers.
COMMUNICATION
You are expected to maintain adequate contact with management. The majority of communication is through WhatsApp or text message/phone calls. Ensure you are always aware of notifications, notices and discussions. If anything is unclear don’t hesitate to ask, especially on the night of the event. Management will send out all the confirmed details of your bookings by Friday morning for the weekend.
Issues/concerns/resolutions
If personal or professional disputes come between members this discourages harmony and the creative and professional process of Ruby Entertainments. However, if conflict is truly unavoidable. All members are expected to participate in the dispute resolution process.
For issues or concerns, email and electronic communication is highly discouraged. Face-to-face discussions are best for resolution and understanding. If that concern or dispute is of a personal nature, and if time and location are difficult, a phone conversation can be organized to discuss with an open mind and heart the issue at hand. Be humble and listen to each other.
Reliability is essential. Performers must be punctual and honour time commitments. If lateness is unavoidable such issues need to be arranged with the team. Performers and participants must chip in and help with clean up, particularly the larger packages where we are in charge of the venue.
COSTUMING AND APPEARANCE: “With bells on!”
Most costumes will be provided by the performer/contractor, and generally, shoes, lingerie and make up items will NOT be provided by Ruby (although sometimes Ruby can help with specific client requests if she has it on hand, such as nun, nurse, cop etc)
Lingerie is not enough for a dancer's wardrobe. The more themes, glitz, and sparkle the better. We believe in a three costumes rule; always be sure you have three separate costumes in your bag for any event and be sure that at least one of them sparkles!
The baggage you carry when arriving is also part of your appearance. No plastic or recyclable bags, be sure that every part of your presentation is polished for arrival.
All performers are expected to have hair and wear make up ready for the event. Heels, shaving, lashes, and hair, arrive as the entire glamorous package. Polished from top to bottom!
Performers must maintain good hygiene by showering, brushing teeth, and always having breath mints or gum on hand. Some performers always pack a toothbrush and toothpaste and it’s a great practice! As far as perfume is concerned, not everyone agrees on what smells nice. So wear a light scent if you must wear something. Earthy scents such as patchouly are not allowed. Always pack deodorant and reapply frequently (body odor has been a complaint in the past, which we understand but ideally it won’t be a problem in the future).
PHOTOGRAPHS AND OTHER MEDIA
Ruby participants agree that their image, through photo, video, or other media, may be used for promotional purposes only. This is mostly on the website. Ruby accepts no responsibility for images taken by audience members or any other parties not affiliated with Ruby, although we do our very best to ensure that does not happen!
Management may email or text your photos out, so let us know if that is not to your discretion.
If you need to have your face or tattoos blurred, let us know, and if you prefer to have your profile on a private page, not visible without the link, please do not hesitate to ask.
EXPENSES
Contractors and performers accept all costs needed for involvement with Ruby Entertainments , including photo shoots, make up, costumes, as well as travel and gas to and from events, unless otherwise organized by Ruby. For example out-of-town gigs (we charge the client 20/hr to travel plus the cost of gas).
ROLES AND EXPECTATIONS
This is not an exhaustive list but contains the major functions/requirements of each role. Performers often take on various roles, so familiarize yourself with the expectations of each.
Everyone should always maintain a strong yet playful presence, and have at least three outfits/costumes packed. See the “personal essentials checklist” for more details of your Ruby bag.
Always communicate with the team where you are at all times and never leave anyone at the party at the end of the night (without a safety plan).
All positions: keep moving and your attention circulating so that everyone gets to spend time with you. Sometimes one person will try to dominate your time, be aware, be polite, and keep circulating!
Hot Hostess/Liaison: “Shots to break the ice!”
This is the main Ruby contact, and she will handle the communication and cash, acting as liaison between both performers and clients, and keeping your eye on the guys hands and phones. A simple format is:
Arrive on time and have your Stag Contact show you to the private room you will use as your dressing room during your stay. Our policy is cash on arrival, so get payment, and pay performers right away, no exceptions.
The hostess can make the best impression by bartending (asking around if anyone needs a drink and noticing when drinks are out) All girls mingle in the start of the evening for about 15 to 20 minutes before changing into their second outfit after which the dancer can do her four song set. Keep in mind that if she needs help dressing the party should never be without a girl, hostess included, for very long. Guys noticed the moment the party is without the staff they have paid for!
Confirm that the Stag Contact has shared our Party Guide with guests beforehand, and remind them when needed. Sometimes it is helpful to introduce yourself at the beginning to smaller groups of 3 or 4, and take the opportunity to let them know the rules rather than competing in the larger group for the attention required for them to listen. During show time watch guests’ hands and phones. Note where clothes/costumes fall, so you can collect them after the show. This is often forgotten or overlooked, but is an important part of the role!
Often the guys try to take some lingerie as a souvenir so beware… These are not souvenirs!
When the show is done private shows can be offered. Private shows are generally one song for 40, three for 100. It isn’t always obvious who wants private shows but you can get a reading on who’s interested and an idea of what order they’re waiting. Keep communicating with the dancer on where and how long she’s going to be meanwhile keeping the party entertained with your personable friendliness!
If the dancer is gone for a long time in a private dance, check in on her safety after a few songs by knocking on the door and asking if everyone is having fun in there.
The dancer negotiates her own private shows and tips the hostess out at the end of the night. If private shows go long after the allotted time of the original booking the Stag party must compensate you with your $50 an hour. In all instances the dancer will tip out the hostess 10% of the earnings from tips and privates.
If the party ends up paying for you to dance on top of your hostess role, a portion of your fee goes to Ruby (The web listed dancer rate is 400 with 100 of that going to the business, so if you have been paid 50 to host ideally you would add 350 to dance and save the 100 fee for Ruby. You *may end up doing the dance for less, but aim high!)
Never leave the party without the dancer, or without communicating a safety plan first.
Hostesses may partake in drinking but don’t go overboard. Often the party wants to see the hostess for privates or may request a show. Negotiate accordingly (the difference between what you’ve been paid and what the website listed price is), once your duties are taken care of.
Topless Servers: “Those pairs come in pairs!”
While this position often ends up “just hanging out”, keep in mind the title is “server” so they are expecting you to serve drinks and shots. This position is booked for various events, not only stags. Mixed gender and mature parties expect us to serve and tidy as we go. Begin in a bikini or bra/underwear and after the first 10/15 minutes ask the stag to remove your top and viola, topless!
Dancers: “Passionate for flashin’ it!”
This is the most exciting part of our parties, so make it worth it! High heels are a must and shaved legs/under arms with the smallest landing strip (if any hair at all) “down there”. These are industry standards, no exceptions.
Arrive prepped and polished, making a great first impression. Mix and mingle with the party, introduce yourself and flirt for about 15 to 20 minutes. This is a teasing portion: once they meet you dressed they will be excited to see you strip!
Your setlist is your responsibility; have your playlist ready and in the correct order before you arrive.
We often perform in remote locations or wi-fi dead zones, do not rely on the Internet or any streaming apps. If you use Spotify/Apple/etc have your playlist downloaded! Your set is four songs, or close to 20 minutes long. Consider this when choosing your playlist (I.e. don’t pick all three minute songs). Always communicate with your team which speaker you will use and set it up prior to performing. Lastly, use “do not disturb” rather than “airplane mode”.
Get in their space, they love it! Some stag parties are very specific, and they want to humiliate him as a “right of passage” so act accordingly without causing real harm.
Strip club format is a three song dance and the fourth on-the-floor, if you feel you need structure. Add water, oil, whip cream as novelties as needed.
Touching yourself is important… Think of it as doing all the touching your audiences wish they could do to you. Caressing your skin and tossing your hair around is very sexy especially when done in slowest slow motion, which is even slower than you think! Add some smoldering eye contact and you can watch everyone melt in puddles at your feet.
Find that perfect balance of sexy classy, not sexy trashy or tacky.
Duos: “A Showcase”
The Duo is two songs added to dancers' solo sets. It’s an interactive show where dancers undress and touch each other according to your comfort level. It’s often the climax of the night and it’s over in a moment, make it worth it. Ideally they will want more after the show, but because the show was so good rather than unsatisfying.
Typically you undress and touch each other according to your comfort level; the best scenario for this is to faux-69 or scissoring. Be sure to discuss your performance with your partner, and remember, it’s a showcase! Imagine you are glittering jewels in a revolving glass case. The emphasis is for both dancers to keep moving so everyone gets a great show from whatever vantage point.
Babes in Toyland
This is a 4 song interactive duo or trio with toys. Beforehand the guests should be reminded by the hostess that this service is a gift and to treat performers with respect. A tame party can turn raunchy really fast so this reminder is key: “Guys please sit back and enjoy rather than crowding around us like a dog fight. Keep your verbal encouragement to yourselves instead of instructing us what to do and commenting in ways that make us feel violated. We are performers, not your personal porn stars.”
Toys: Vibrators don’t count but can be added to double-dildos and/or strap-ons. This is the finale of the night and one of great expectations so keep switching positions so everyone gets a view. Starting with oral (“blowing the phallus”), and ending with “sex”.
Note: Discuss before the day of who will do what in the toy show and keep in mind peoples menstrual cycles… if every girl happens to be on her period what will you do? If you are uncertain about using sponges, ask Ruby how this works.
PRIVATE SHOWS & TIP OUTS
Private dances are *somewhat* negotiable with the benchmark of one song for $40, three for $100. Read the room, judge accordingly. Tip outs are generally 10 % each to both the hostess and Ruby. As an added bonus, if Ruby (Sarah) is your hostess, you only need to tip her 10% total. When in rare cases you have more than one hostess, tip them both the 10%.
You are welcome to upsell in your private dances and use toys, but only on yourself. Please do not have clients use toys on you, again this is to ensure future performers comfort and safety.
If you don’t get any private’s/tips, don't worry about tipping. It is recommended you set up Square to accept debit/credit, as some people may not have cash. Keep in mind that Square is traceable income. E-transfers also can work, but there are some complications, such as reception if you are in a remote area like Tofino or Port Renfrew.
If you use E-transfer keep in mind that your real names are on your bank accounts, which the customer will see. Set your banking up for direct deposit of E-transfers to cut out the password step of the transaction, making it run more smoothly.
CONFLICTS OF INTEREST
Management recognizes the right of performers to be involved in activities outside of Ruby Entertainments yet performers must do so in a manner that will prevent conflicts of interest, or the perception of conflicts of interest, from Ruby.
Examples of conflicts of interest include but are not limited to, scheduling conflicting events/shows in an area (I.e. Victoria), and competing with Ruby entertainment as another similar business venture or “stealing” performers for competing events/companies. This also includes working on the side and providing services you only offer with Ruby, I.e. dancing for stag parties.
Do not use performers you have connected with through Ruby Entertainments. I consider this act hurtful, disloyal and a personal slap in the face.
All bookings must go through the business. Everyone is involved in keeping the business going through referrals through the years. Each party is an opportunity for countless more parties in our future, which keeps us ALL earning for years to come.
The Ruby fee is 100/girl (or less for serving). So if you know a party who wants to book, it’s a reasonable amount to bill them and have them connect through the business, and to be in good and honest conscience with our business agreement.
If you want to give a deal to friends, take it out of your cut, or maybe offer a private dance as a deal. When Ruby gives discounts etc it comes off my booking fee for example, so the performers always make their base-rates. If you are uncertain if something is a conflict, ask management (Ruby/Luna)..
Thank you for taking the time to read over this document!
I understand it is a dense and formal document, but please know how much I appreciate everyone taking this seriously so that we can all be on the same page. I very much value each and every one of you
If you have ANY questions at all, please don't hesitate to reach out to either Ruby or Luna.
Personal Essentials Checklist:
-Bluetooth speaker
-Baby wipes
-Blanket
-Toothbrush
-Gum
-Business Cards
-Naloxone kit (narcan)
-Novelty items
-Back up fishnets
-Tampons/Sponges
-Plastic shot glasses
-“Insertable” toys, just in case of an upsell!
Review Questions:
What is Ruby’s policy around bad breath, perfumes and deodorant?
How many songs is Babes in Toyland?
How many outfits would we like you to pack?
When will you get the details of your weekend event by?
Who do you tip out and how much?
What often gets overlooked as a hostess duty?
What are examples of conflicts of interest?
